She is under at home hospice care but that doesn't mean she'll die in 6 months. This could go on for years. He works two jobs and thinks he can just go on as usual while I manage all this. Its gotten to the point where I can't to look at his face! If she had to go to inpatient it would cost $304.00 a day. So I'm saving all her assets from being used up and all the while I feel that I am being used. I also care for her 14 yr. old dog. Should I contact an attorney and if so what kind of attorney. And advice is appreciated.