I moved into my mothers home a few years ago due to losing my job, since then i have became her care giver, my mother is 76 and has had a few strokes and recently been diagnosed with vascular dementia.i say i am her caregiver because i am her voice, memory, maid , driver, i do all the things that she can no longer do for herself. Except pay her bills my brother which is her POA does that. MY mother who still has a active roll in her finances sees me has some one who should take care of her for free. MY mother can afford to pay an outside care giver or pay for to be in an assisted living facility but refuses to do so. my question is how do i get help on finances. i have no medical insurances on my self i am 50 yrs old, single and concerned with my own health issues. I can not even buy myself a cheese burger from mcdonalds. I recieve no monies from her or my brother for the care i give. I am her daughter and this is my job. I find myself slipping away.