My 91 yr old mother is hospitalized in another town 150 miles from the hospital that her 94 year old husband is in. They have been married for 76 years and last they saw each other was 10 days ago which no one knew it was to be the last. My father has taken a turn for the worst and hospice care is inevitable. My mother is frail and the trip may be too much for her. I feel like it would be the right thing to do, letting them say their goodbyes. On the other hand it would be so stressful for them both over the broken hearts they are experiencing now. I don't know what to do.