She has accused me of stealing from her, she wanders and attempts to drive. She spent 13 days in geriatric psych after she called the police accusing my 13 yo niece of stealing $5000 and jewelry (jewelry was on her dresser, money never existed). She is in a great memory care facility and is miserable and hateful and says she is suing me and will never forgive me. My sister thinks if we tell her she has Alz it would help mom cope better as to why she is in a facility. I think if would crush her hopes. What should we do? The psychiatrist who treated mom in geriatric psych is the one who recommended a lockdown memory facility. Thanks for your input!