I''m helping my parents fill out their Health Care Directive, and we are wondering how to describe the situation where, if Dad or Mom were essentially on life support (would die if supports removed), would they have to be kept alive, just so the 4 other kids could come and see them? Dad & Mom really don't want to have artificial life support at all. But all my siblings live far out of state, and do not visit parents, so how do we write this into the Directive, that the parents do not wish to artificially extend their time, just so the siblings could catch their plane and say "good-bye" one last time?
Maybe I just need someone else to write it. I'm having trouble coming up with a coherent sentence.