Both parents have Alzheimer’s and one parent is currently on hospice. Both live together in a facility and one parent will be passing soon. Since the surviving parent will want to know where the spouse is, I have been told to not say that the spouse died if it upsets the surviving parent. That being said, should the surviving parent with moderate Alzheimer’s attend the funeral of their spouse or might that be a bad idea? We are trying to prepare for the inevitable. Any ideas or suggestions? Have any of you experienced this that could share what you did? Thank you.