My dad is a very stoic quiet man and has not shared his bladder issues. Now a tumor was removed two weeks ago that did invade wall. That is all I know. While he is youthful and sharp in many ways it would be a nightmare for him to have routine visits. He thinks removal means he is all fine and I am terrified about future suffering. I think I should just accept, but as someone who researches everything and has suddenly been pulled into service here I want to do the best for him. Any thoughts?