Mom has lived with me for 6 years. She gets nervous about travel. She goes to my sister sometimes but we both have extremely busy work schedules and this summer is just too much so we need 2 months respite. A brother in another state has offered but the travel is an issue plus brother has some health issues. There is a nice AL place in town that can do it for about $6k for the 2 months. She has 5 kids with varying levels of helpfulness and I feel guilt if she stays with anyone other than one of us which I know is not rational.
I tend to over control and micro manage and would appreciate advice on how to do this in a sane and well adjusted way. Thanks in advance.