My Wife's dad moned in with us Oct 2014. Lots of health/Alzheimers/Dementia but all is manageable for the moment. I believe it is time for him to move to a home as this is stressful not only to us individually but our relationship. I suggest a change of homes would be more benifitial as we both work and he almost never leaves house or has visitors. He just does his TV/Computer Eat/Sleep thing; where more opportunity for activities/visitors and friends. Am I being selfish?