My mom is 101, and I give her weekly bed baths (she can't stand to be bathed more frequently, although I do clean her thoroughly after every bladder and bowel movement) with packaged pre-moistened cleansing cloths. I try to be as gentle as possible, but even so, she says I'm rubbing too hard. She can't stand to have her toes touched, which means cutting her toe nails and trying to clean between her toes, are almost too painful for her to endure. She complains of being cold all the time, even when wrapped in several blankets and having a space heater blow warm air constantly right next to her. I feel so ill-equipped at times in caring for her, and worry that I may not be doing things properly. I'd appreciate any ideas, suggestions, or tips that have worked for others in my situation. Thank you all!