My mother will be 98 April 14- she is definitely showing some signs. She often says how she will not go to a nursing home, but we have never discussed this senior help situation - she gets extremely upset when I offer to do some of the things for her that she can no longer do. I am at a loss as to how to get this to happen for her. I know she wants to stay in her home, but she definitely needs some kind of help which she will not let me give. I have read the article on the signs and she definitely has several of them even thought she lives alone and still drives herself around town.