My husband and I have been invited to our son's in-law's 50th wedding anniversary party about 550 miles away. It is also a chance to see our son and family who we haven't seen in a year. My dilemma is my mom was just put on hospice today. She is 95 years old and lives in a memory care facility. She fell and broke her hip 2 months ago and has really gone down hill since. If she should pass while I'm gone, I don't know if I could forgive myself for not being there. She is at the point where conversation is gibberish and she sleeps a lot. Am I being selfish if I go on this trip? It would be in 2 weeks.