I have a friend that lives in the state of Illinois that cares for his elderly Mother. She is in the late stages of dementia and needs 24 hr. total care, (she cannot feed , bathroom or dress herself) She is on medicare and medicaid. Since he is there caring for her 24/7 he cannot work. He is her Power of Attorney for her so this makes him ineligible for financial assistance to help out with the bills and for her care. Does anyone have any info that may help someone in this situation?