My MIL broke her hip in May. I offered to take her in after PT at NH. Over the past few months, she has manipulated almost everyone into disliking her husband and making him look like the bad guy. My husband was finally fed up with him after she had a gall bladder attack and is in the hospital. He sat him down and had a talk with him and found out she has been playing us with her actions. Now with all the stress we have had, we are both fed up with it. I want to call them both out on their actions after she gets back. Am I being to harsh? We have put our lives on hold for the two of them, and are sick of it.