Our parents (83 and 84) live with us, She has severe dementia, and I am looking at options. We live in Lincoln Ca. Probably will wait until we need to move her into an assisted living facility (which may not be long). She is constantly disoriented, incontinent, strange sleep patterns, frequently angry etc....Her husband is her immediate care giver, but my wife and I take care of both of them. Looking for options, should we move her out and keep him here?? Move both out? What about cost?? Anyway just starting to search as I said.