My mother died over a year ago. I'm the main caretaker of my father who has seirzures, and a stroke, with many other disabilities. He thinks he can live on his own, and has become increasingly combative and irrational. he went home to stay with my sister for the holidays and is supose to return Jan 3. He's refusing to come back, and says he's going to evict the people renting his home, and getting a reverse mortgage. I have durable power of attorney for him, and three letters from his doctors stating he is unable to safely live by himself and needs daily supervision.