I had a very heated shouting match about it and have been suffering from depression and anxiety ever since. I am a sensitive person but in this case, I vehemently defended myself and now I can not seem to shake the PTSD of the situation. I feel I have done soooo much for my parent and had no idea that family members were actuallly, for years, mentally counting my parent's small inherentence. Instead of thanking me I was accused living of my parent-which could not be further from the truth. My parent would not have been able to stay in his home if it was not for me, or someone else to help. Thanks in advance for the responses.