Is anyone here dealing with a bedbound loved one in their home and bathing them in bed? If I can lift my Mom into her wheelchair and onto the toilet she will do her bm's there each morning. She cannot walk or talk and sleeps alot now. Although incontinent she seems to hold her bm's and if I were to bed bathe her how do I deal with that. I seriously know she wont go in bed. I have burnt out my arm and now my morning caretaker has burnt out hers and told me today she needs time off. I don't blame her and I understand but of course I am just so upset. Is there any way to hoyer them onto the toilet and get the hoyer sling off, the u-slings dont work for her, as she will fall through it. Any suggestions please?