I am providing 24/7 care for my mom. She has cancer and heart issues. I am NOT an only child. I am trying to find a balance between caring for my mom (who needs help with EVERYTHING)and being a wife, mother and Grandma. I am constantly tell my husband, kids and grandkids sorry I can't I have to stay here with mom. My daughter is expecting her first child. I have no idea how I can leave mom to be with my daughter for the birth of the baby. Mom has panic fits if I am gone from her.