My mom lives in a small town that has minimal service for the elderly. Her Alzheimers has progressed to where she does not remember anything short term at all. We are looking to move her from Florida to Arizona and have her live with my brother. She would never agree to this move but I might be able to get her to go visit. I can't imagine going to visit someone thinking I will return and then not being allowed to come back home. It seems wrong on many levels but it has gotten to the point where she can not be by herself. Thinking about this, it is something that we need to do.
I am just a little confused about how to approach this. Should I tell her and be honest or take her from her home without giving her the truth?