She says she just "washes" up and that is good enough. She is 87 and lives with us. Sometimes she does get confused..has cataracts (legally blind) and is terribly hard of hearing. She refuses to have a cataract operation which would improve her eyesight and does not want a hearing aid. I was able to get her to a doctor only one time since she has been here and she refused all tests. She just continues to say she is fine. Even though she does not smell...I know she needs to get in the shower and scrub up. I told her it would probably make her aching back feel better. Any ideas on how to get her in there? Thank you.