My Aunt (80) is recently widowed (1yr) and lives alone, has CHF, COPD, depression and has a drinking problem. My Aunt is competent but she will not be around much longer unless she gets 24 hour care but refuses. Any advice?She falls and goes to ER several times a month. She has 5 children and no one seems to be taking a stand. They hire live in help and my Aunt fires them after a week. She fell again last night and went to ER and received staples in her head. She has fallen more times than i can recall. She has knocked out teeth, black eyes.... I know she is severely depressed and really doesn't want to live. She is also back to smoking with severe emphesema. My mother (her sister) has dementia and when her symptoms put her life at risk. I took her keys and she moved in with me (with full time help) Once her life was in danger she had no choice and luckily didn't fight it too bad and thankfully is doing much better. I don't know what my cousins can do legally because my Aunt is competent but she will not be around much longer unless she gets the help and 24 hour care she needs but refuses. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.