My family and I received a call from my father's physcian who told us that our father cancer is not operable and terminal. My father has one elderly sister(80) and daddy is 82. Along with the dr. advice ,My dad Children we are placing him in a nursing home with hospice. His sister is upset with us, I explained to her that we did not want him to be a burden to her, but we were placing him in a facility close to her, so she can visit with him. Our daddy is in Louisiana and we are in Florida, We wanted to bring him home to be with us, but the doctor said he is too weak and will not survive the ride, the tumor has spread. We are very devastated, and my aunt is blaqming me, what should I do.