She has frozen shoulder and cellulitis. No children. She could have a home health aid come in but because of the condition she refuses to let anyone come in to help. She does not drive. She is a widow. Her husband was her care-giver and he passed away two years ago. My parents 92 and 94 try to help out. This is taxing on their own health and threatens their independence. I have tried and am trying to set up a support network for these three elderly people that I love but I am at my wits end because they work in concert to deny the reality that things have to change due to aging and health problems.
Any advice on how to handle a hoarder when their health is deteriorating?