It's $3,600 a month for care home. Money is dwindling fast.
In 2012, my mother broke her hip so I had to put her in a care home. My 88 year-old mother is using a walker and her vitals are good, but her dementia is getting worse. There are probably about 7 months of funds left. I work full time, but do not make enough money to help her out. I have a brother who pays for her physical therapy. (He lives several hundred miles away and can be verbally abusive to me and our mother.) My dad who passed away a few years ago was a packrat. I am still weeding, sorting, and selling his stuff. There is an irrevocable trust.