The problem is that there are 3 children who live within a few minutes of mom's current home. There are several excellent AL facilities close by. One sibling has convinced mom that she needs to live closer to her home. Sadly, the likelihood of any of us getting up to see mom who will be 4 hours away is slim. Those of us who have lived nearby for the last 30 years have all pitched in with her care and socialization. She sees us several times a week for outings and events at our homes. Now, she will never have a chance to see her grandkids and great-grandkids. I am concerned that she will feel great family isolation when she moves. Any advice?