I live out of state, visit Mom as I can every 4-6 weeks, for 3-4 days. Like to take her out to eat, drive to the beach, etc. My Mom has dementia, early Alzheimers. Nursing Director at ALF told my sister, who lives five minutes from facility, that it might be better not to take Mom out as she is then 'extremely' anxious and out of sorts for a couple weeks following my visit due to this break in her routine. Normal? Or, if she got out more it would be better for her? Will I soon be told that my visits are provoking anxiety and it might be better not to visit? Sister and I have limited contact.