My mom has been in a ALF for awhile now ,I thought she would be ok after a while but she still is so very unhappy there. Every time I go to visit her she begs me to get her out. I didn't have a place that was safe for her but I do now with a little bit of work to make it safe for her to be there the conditions there are really bad as far as I'M concerned! They don't assist her in anything the only time they come in her room is to ask her if she is coming to Breakfast lunch or dinner? she has lost a lot of weight. they let her lock herself in her room for hrs. 3 times now when I go to visit there is (shit) everywhere because of her diarrhea, WHICH THEY REFUSE TO GVE HER THE MEDICINE THAT WORKS FOR HER. THEY NEVER WASH HER CLOTHER OR EVEN MAKE SURE SHE CHANGES THEM. SOME TIMES SHE HAS THE SAME DIRTY CLOTHES ON FOR WEEKS .I HAVE TO GO LT SOMEONE KNOW TO CLEAN THE TOILET AND EVEN THEN IT TAKES THEM HRS. THEY DON'T PROVIDE ANY KIND OF MEDICAL TREATMENT LET ALONE PROVIDE ANY ASSISTANTS.I'M SURE THAT I COULD TAKE CARE OF HER ALOT BETTER AND SHE WOULD BE SO MUCH HAPPIER AND HEALTHIER. SH TRIES TO WASH HER OWN UNDERWARE OUTIN THE BATHROOM SINK. THEY NEVER PROVIDE TOWELS WASHCLOTHES HANDTOWELS SOAP AND BARLY TOILET PAPER. EVERYONE THERE IS STARVING I HEAR THEM ALWAYS ASK FOR SECONDS AND THERE IS ALWAYS SOME EXCUSE WHY THEY CAN'T HAVE MORE. I FEED MY 6 YR OLD GRANDAUGHTER MORE THEN THEY GET.THEY HAVE NEVER LET MY MOM SEE HER BILL OF WHAT IT COST AND CHARGES THEY APPLY FOR WHAT EVER. AND HAVE NEVER LET HER KNOW THE INFORMATION. THAT CAN'T BE RIGHT? ITS GOT TO BE A MONEY THING HER SOCIAL SECURITY GO STRAIGHT TO A PAYEE WHICH THEY SAY IT HAS TO BECAUSE SHE IS IN A FACILITY THEY DON'T GIVE HER ANY MONEY OUT OF HER CK AT ALL.IT BREAKS MY HEAT AND I DON'T WANT MY MOM TO BE THERE ANYMORE CAN THEY STOP ME FROM TAKING HER OUT OF THERE? THEY DID ONCE WERE THEY BLUFFING? I DON'T UNDERSTAND? NEITHER DOES MY MOM?