Mom is in LTC, no dementia, only mobility problems. I go the extra mile but it is never enough, do her laundry, shopping for clothes, pay her phone and TV bills, do her banking, etc. etc. I recently did a huge sewing task for her, no thanks. When I mentioned she never say thank you, she wrote me out an itemized list of things she gave to me when she had to leave her house, with a value beside each item. I am so mad that I told her I would sell each item and give her the money. Does anybody else have a problem with their parents that they feel all the help you give them is owed? Nothing is appreciated.