A little back story. I have been living in my Mothers home as her full time caregiver for 24/7 for 3 years. I am on SSDI as my primary source of income. I have seen my savings dwindle and have had very little respite during this time. I told my siblings that I would need a few things if I was going to stay being my Mothers caregiver. I wanted 2 weeks respite a year, $800/month for caregiver pay and the house left in my name if my Mom dies before I do. I also gave them 3 other options if this was not acceptable to them. They came back stating that I was doing disability fraud. Should I get an attorney to protect myself? I really need help here - I feel so alone.