I am 96, how do I ask for help for me and my wife (91)?

First of all, congratulations must go to both you and your wife to have reached the ages you have. Next, a visit to your doctor would be in order just to discuss things like home help etc. Your doctor will get the appropriate agencies to get in touch with you, perhaps a home visit. I did this for my motherinlaw some years ago and the people who came to see her were wonderful. All the best, and i hope you get the help you need. Keep us informed.

ya know woodrow wilson died in 1924 so he aint gonna be much help .
just kiddin with ya guy . congrats on such a lengthy lifespan to you and your wife . i hope , like others here have said , that you obtain the the medical or in home help that you need .
my gosh , by the age of 96 ill just be a stream of expletives . nouns become so elusive you know ?

There certainly must be home caring service for you and your wife in the neighbourhood. I think the quickest / best way to find someone reliable is to ask your general practician. He or she certainly knows where / when and what type of help you can obtain. And if he or she is a kind person, he will call this home caring service to make an appointment so that someone can come at home to discuss matters and let you know about price/s, and so on. Hope that you can still remain at home with you wife for quite some years. Big hug

http://www.co.monroe.pa.us/agencies/cwp/view.asp?a=1534&q=606812

Monroe County Agencyon Aging.

local area agency on aging. They are in with the Council of Governments in your area. They have a wide variety of resources available and will help you get appropriate services setup. Another option would be a Geriatric Care Manager they are social workers and very familiar with what help is needed and how to get it. Search for "Certified Geriatric Care Manager".

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