I quit my job when my dad got ill and my mom also needed help, to take care of them in my home, my dad died recently, so it is permanent ... with my mom. I have asked for $300 a dollars for utilities, gas, etc. Is this too much and do i have to answer for it later if she needs a nursing home and they go back five years? I am just starting out on this journey and it is overwhelming and lonely sometimes, very hard life change. Thanks for this forum.