He keeps harassing me about my Mother's care, questioning my every move and my integrity? He's been around 30 years and he thinks he is one of my Mother's children. I have one brother and two sisters but my sisters insist on having their husbands in on her caregiving affairs. It's stress enough to have to hear the opinions of four, two of which are not siblings? I've had enough but trying to keep cool. I recently moved my Mother from Assisted Living with 24 hours sitter, to a more secure memory care floor. Went from $17500 a month to $8000 a month. No brainer. Trying to stretch out her monies for continuous care at a nice place. She has long term care policy and saved every dime bless her. Has moderate to severe dementia. I want to remove my sisters' husbands from the scenario. Their constant badgering me through nasty email and telling me to stay away from their children is stressful. I hate to take legal action but I'm having chest pains from stress and not a moment goes by where I'm not thinking about their anger and my sisters wanting control. Thanks everybody.