Before I was made conservator, my father and brother passed. Mom never did anything about them and I have their ashes in my home. I'd like to have them placed at a nice mausoleum in town. The funeral home is having issues about my 'right' to decide about my father and brother's resting place. My mother has this 'right' but she is not legally responsible. This is turning into a legal quagmire. There were no wills or last requests by either my father or brother and Mom has no will either.
Has anyone had any experience with something similar? Even our Elder care attorney is baffled.