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The “TWO DISTANT, NON-INVOLVED SIBLINGS CALL AND BRAG........”
#1) Big family reunion on the wife’s side this summer.
Is “Mom” invited......NO!!!!
WHY IS IT THE TOPIC OF CONVERSATION


when Mom talks withthem???????
End of phone conversation?????
”I LOVE YOU TOO!!!!!”
#2) Second noninvolved sibling.....
”MY FRIEND HAS A PLACE IN BARBADOS HE WANTS ME TO GO VISIT!!!”
IS MOM INVITED??? NO!!!!!!!


YET.......HOW WONDERFUL ARE THESE 2 SONS!!!!!!!!
” YES........I’M LOSING MY MIND AS YOU READ THIS.........

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I’m a big fan of Dave Matthews Band. He sings a song called “Ants Marching”. One of the lines about strife and stress says something like “put it in a box for a later time”.

My husband has been disabled for 16 years and bedridden for 6. After the collapse of the family business, which I wonder if they don’t blame in him, his sibs have completely turned their backs on him. He doesn’t say much but I know he is devastated. No one calls. No one asks about him when I see them (infrequently) at family gatherings. My son is hosting my grandson’s first birthday party this weekend and I told him if he invites them I would not attend.

Be the better person. Don’t engage. They’re idiots. Feel sympathy and not anger. Just smile when they brag and say “How nice for you...”
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Arimethea33 Apr 2019
Thank you. I live in the land of Dave Matthews (Virginia), will have to take a listen....:)
I hear you. My firstborn never walked or talked.
I took care of her until she died, 2 months short of her 32nd birthday.
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