For the past month or so I've noticed a drop or two of urine on the toilet seat after mom leaves the bathroom (she lives with me). I think she may be standing sideways so she can hold on to the commode because one of her knees bothers her sometimes. She has mild to moderate dementia. Do I bring it up to mom to remind her to check the seat if she's going to stand? If she is in fact standing. This way she can wipe the seat. Or, should I let it go and clean it off myself which is what I've been doing? I don't want to embarrass her but I don't want it to continue either. Knowing my mom she wouldn't want to "not know" but still......it's a sensitive subject. I've sat in it more than a few times (if I forget to check).......blah...... That, and my daughter noticed the other day mom's wipes had poop on them.....in the package and on the package......I certainly hope mom's washing her hands thoroughly.......double blah........ Anyone else dealing with this?