Long story short my dad fried his brain with alcohol and my mom had to become his power of attorney as he was giving away all his money. He got put in a nursing home and after sometime, my mom decided she wanted a divorce which meant signing over power of attorney to someone else which she did. Well, that power of attorney died a few years ago before my mom could get her divorce and now there is a different power of attorney person again (another family member). They are trying to sue my mom saying she misused my dad's money from 9 years ago! Gotta love backstabing family members, am I right? She has not even been his power of attorney in over 8 years and the lawyer expects her to produce receipts from that time. She can't even get bank statements because that bank only holds them for 7 years. They are not even legally divorced yet and they had joint bank accounts at that time for crissake she could have used his money wether she was power of attorney or not. Can anyone offer some advice that may help?