Dad with dementia has been placed into a memory care facility. He does not need help eating or bathing. He was living with mom but does not know who she is, wanted to kick her out of the house, then started wandering around the neighborhood. He is paranoid, delusional, can no longer be contained at home. Mom is burnt after 1-2 years of this and if it were to go on much longer she will be in poor health. They have a "Cadillac" LTC policy they've been paying on for almost 20 years. Hoping they won't get scr*w*d.