I seem to hate mom. She makes my life miserable. Thank goodnes she doesnt live with me. So my life isn't always miserable. I'm trying to help her when I can. But her codependent relationship with my brother is a major problem. Also her being rigid and negative and have anxiety disorder. She is on anxiety meds. But only help some. Wont try different ones. Would never work in therapy. Expected therapist to solve her problems. She wouldnt change. Won't listen to anyone.