As Mom's caregiver, I have the pleasure of helping her with her shower each night. She procrastinates, telling me, "I need a treat" or "just a few more minutes" which turns into 30 minutes or so. I really just want some time to myself...then I feel like I'm being really selfish, as she's at day care while I'm at work. Any suggestions? I feel like this should be on my terms, am I being selfish?