Now my father is in hospice. I had written less than a month ago about my mother with renal failure put in at home hospice. My siblings and I have been rotating care for her. Last week my father began at home hospice with heart failure. He has been failing fast and my mother has improved. My father is now on oxygen and is wearing diapers. I just finished my "shift" of nine nights and ten days. It is overwhelmingly exhausting. My siblings and I range in age from 56 to 73. Has anyone else had to deal with two parents at home hospice care?