My mom is a widow of a retired vet. I am 90% disabled and my wife is 100 disabled. We are trying to sell her house to pay for some of the expenses. I am a retired vet also and asking if there is financial assistance to assist with the remodeling. We are paying out of pocket expenses now for an unlicensed care taker and would like to know if any financial assistance is available? I have been diagnosed with stage 4 cancer, and y mom suffers with dementia and alzheimers. Jim B.