With my hydrating her, she can go for 2 hours and a bit longer before the pull up is wet again. She feels it coming out but can not verbalize it and mostly never does unless she is standing. She will motion her hands toward her pelvic area...we wobble to the bathroom and 90% of the time she has already gone. But how can I go for longer stretches and NOT Risk getting a restaurant chair wet or the seat at the theater if sometimes our planning flopped and we could not get a bathroom break in prior to the activity? I Have diaper doublers and inserts but it seems pull ups still leak. I use Tena. Is there a better brand? My fear is a BM and that fear keeps us home and possibly missing an event.