I have caregivers seven days a week for my parents who live with me. I do a lot of things for my parents. But lately I feel really angry especially with my mother who is very negative and complains about everything. The first thing in the morning after I say good morning I hear a litany of complaints. I know I should just listen and let it go and try to look into what is bothering her. But I don't like negativity first thing in the morning it just spoils the rest of my day. She used to be like this when she was well too. The minute I came home from work, I didn't even have my coat off, and the list of problems began. I told her then to hold off telling me things until I got settled. Of course she never listened. When she wants something, she wants it now. How can I get in a better frame of mind?