We are 4+ months into taking care of my 97 year old mom with dementia. This on-the-job training sucks. I've tried 20+ brands/styles of disposable undies. Some purchased, others were free samples via on-line and all were huge disappointments. I tried pantie liners, but she takes them out and/or the pads were too narrow. The ones that were wide enough were too thick. I took her panties away and now she's going commando.
We have our first neurologist appointment Monday.