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You are correct that geri-psych can be a true-blessing. But I know 2 people whose final decline involved a geri-psych unit. Who knows what their short-term outcome would have been otherwise, but they didn't have the "adjust the meds, discharge, and move on" experience. It was adjust, decline, discharge, readmit, adjust, decline, discharge, hospice. In one case, 4 visits to geri psych.
Since my DH has had periods of extreme agitation, I recently discussed with his neurologist the potential of a geri-psych visit and how to otherwise manage his aggression. She said that her preference is for her to work directly with MC or me (if DH is still at home) to adjust meds, even daily if needed, with the goal of getting DH stabilized. She's willing to put in this effort. I don't know if all neurologists would work this hard.
Sometimes it's possible to do it in the patient's current living situation, sometimes not. But she believes that geri-psych is a last choice because it is so destabilizing for patients.
Dementia is a fatal disease with a fairly unpredictable course, especially because there are so many different types, most not able to be definitively diagnosed except at autopsy.
Treating dementia is about symptom relief. It's a matter of making the least bad choice most of the time. Sometimes you have to take a chance.
My mom was eventually kicked out of a memory care facility because she was a danger to herself and others. She was then moved to a smaller care home with about ten residents, all of which had been kicked out of previous facilities due to behaviors. That situation worked better for mom but she was also on more meds to help control her behaviors.
Has mom seen a psychiatrist or neurologist ?
Some residents at mom's memory care get aggressive only at certain times - bath time or bed time - others are always volatile
Mom is on a fairly low dose of risperdal now and though she is immobile she will still pinch when she's being changed or showered - to her it's a violation of her body - fortunately she can turn and then be very sweet
Her behavior especially her grumpiness ramps up with a UTI so anything beyond her baseline and I'm asking for a urinalysis which is now very difficult as they have to use a catheter for collection
Good luck and I'd offer up to stay close and monitor her reaction to any new drugs - seroquel, a common go to drug, didn't work for mom
PS I know I had asked questions in the past, I couldn’t find them, how did you? I am not computer sauvy!
Otherwise, she needs to be evaluated by a geriatric psychiatrist; there are meds that can help, but sometimes, admission to a psych unit can be the best way for the docs to figure out what meds can help.
Mom's primary doctor can do the test, so would any urgent care facility.