I have some very serious concerns about some friendships my parents have developed in the past few years and one of the friends has seriously crossed the line with me, asking very inappropriate medical questions about my parents, etc. This recent behavior has been very concerning for me and I'm starting to connect some dots and I'm seeing a whole lot of red flags that indicate grooming of vulnerable adults. If I speak to my mom about my concerns and setting some basic boundaries, my mom turns on me and I am the bad guy (she has early stages of dementia).
I'm in communication with our Elder Law Attorney. And I am seeking advice from a social worker about how to set healthy boundaries.
I want to do a background check on this particular friend and her family. I've run across websites that claim to do background checks, but I've never used one. I'm curious if anyone here has any experience with a good service for background checks?