I would like to know if there are counselors out there available to help me talk to my sister about the care that my aging parents need???…she has been taking care of them and refuses to listen to me that there are people and things my parents could qualify for help,,I was hoping if a counselor were available so that the subject can be addressed with a third party present and she would refrain from being uncivil about the subject. I cannot call someone and have them just show up or call them without going through this with my sister first…They are completely dependent upon her and she has severe control issues that I cannot deal with on my own. My sister's own home is unlivable because she spends every second taking care of my family….If I dare say anything to my parents first,,she will alienate me and I will be the bad guy. I am stuck between a rock and a hard place I really need to know if there are counselors or some persons that can help me talk to my sister, Please !