Mother is 76 and has alienated everyone in the family. We support her financially but it's her way or the highway. She has no filter and when she lashes out she makes up stories so it's always the other persons fault. When you try to reason with her she becomes angry, irrational and frequently play the "i want to die card". She spends her time rehashing old fueds and the only one who isn't in her crosshairs is the person she's talking to. This behavior started about 5 years ago and we don't know what to do. Help!