Right now my sister is handling most of her needs but she is burning out. We are a caring, cohesive family with little bickering. We all care for this aunt like a parent. How do we divide up the tasks of all the little things an elderly person needs? Our aunt is in an ideal housing situation so that is not an issue. Her Medicare paper work and papers from her 5 doctors are in chaos. We are concerned that she can no longer handle her own finances. Several can sign her checks, but she hasn't figured out that it is time to turn this task over to them. I feel we should sit down with Aunt and express our concerns and help her start a plan. Others say we need to wait until she asks. Any advice?